Time Constraints/Priorities....

[YGuy]

I'm just as determined as anyone when it comes to PEing, but alot of things are changing in my life to where I need to cut back on my PE time. Sometimes I take up about 3 hours of my day from hanging/jelqing, and it's starting to catch up with me. I'm starting to realize as you get older, the more responsibilities you're going to have, and I'm thinking that making my penis bigger shouldn't be my number one priority, because it has been the past 11 months.

I just turned 20, and looking back at being 19, what did I accomplish? Yea I got a bigger penis, and its' changed my attitude and my self esteem, but how is that going to help me be successful in life? What else did I accomplish? NOTHING.. My parents are about to get a divorce, and it's time for me to grow up. I'm hoping to hold a job down so I can move out in a years time, start up a new major in computer networking, continue to work out, and lessen my PE time to about an hour and a half a day. I don't think I'll be having much of a life the next year, but we all reach a point in our life where realize our priorities need to get in order.

i just needed to get this off my chest and I hope no one is too obsessed about making gains that it affects other aspects of their life ....

you're absolutely right, Yguy,
PE should not be anybody's number one priority, I mean bigger dick will not help you at all in many aspects of life.
I used to do 2 -3 hours sessions and after a while I lost the interest completely ( I didn't even read the board for a while). That's why I switched to short sessions lately ( 25-30 minutes a day) and I believe I'll get even better results.
So just see what's more important and find a little window of time that you can dedicate to PE.I don't think you'll lose
a lot that way. In any event, I wish you good luck.

Yguy7,

Man, do I hear what you are saying. You are absolutely right that people are more important than a big dick. It is understandable that you would be in a tough place with your folks in trouble, and that you would be having some anxiety about yourself, too. But don't despair! You can have a life and do PE, too. Sure, 3 hours a day is more than anyone can do and live a real life, too. But you don't have to do that much. Quality is important, too, as in all things. So work out a plan that can leave you time to build an adult life, and do the work you need to do to feel good about your endowment as well. Keep posting!

Been there.

"and its' changed my attitude and my self esteem, but how is that going to help me be successful in life?"
You're kidding, right?
What could be more important to success than self esteem?
On the other hand 3 hours does seem excessive. : )

[Sizemeister]

I've been through and am going through the same thing, YGuy. Last year at this time I was a college student with free time and was spending some 2 hours daily with my jelq and squeeze routine. Then the reality of a real job, rent, a serious gf, trying to lose weight, and lack of sleep hit. Five months later and I'm just now getting back into the swing of things in PE. But I am much better off now that I have some of those things sorted out. Don't let PE take the place of anything else of importance in your life. An hour and a half should still be plenty (and I wish I had that much time to spend each day...you lucky devil). Good to see you know where your priorities lie.

Good luck,

Size

[Dance]

Yes of course everyone has to determine their priorities. However, if someone has PE has one of their top priorities then that is there perogative as well. Besides that, an interesting point is that if you hang for hours you can still do other things at the same time. Study, work on the computor and watch tv as well as many other things such as talk on the phone or whatever. So I can spend the whole day doing PE and still get a lot accomplished. Just as a personal note, many people say they don't have enough time to do things, but it is not lack of time but lack of time management. Just a thought. I do have the advantage of working at home so that makes a big difference, but my point is that hanging time does not equal wasted time, and you can do more than one thing at the same time.
Dance

[P9]

Keeping things in reasonable perspective with regard to the amount of time you want to put in, --even at 30 mins 3 times a week -- or less you should have 10" easily by the time you're 25.

You'll have to work out when to stop!!!!

[dino775]

yguy7

You will find that life is a constant battle for balance, you have to find time for yourself, work, study, girlfriend or wife your friends and family if you spend to much time on one part of your life the others will suffer and you wont be happy.
Don't ask me how you do this because I don't know any easy way I'm 37 and have been fighting this war every day for the last 17 years. It's very hard you want to get ahead at work you need to spend some serious hours on the job but than the wife and kids feel like you not spending enough time with them. but than they all want to buy that new boat or Bigger House so you need work more to make some more cash it never ends a constant strle all you can do is fight the good fight . Good luck welcome to being an adult

Dino

[YGuy]

I really appreciate the advice and support that you guys share. It'll be a balancing situation, but I'll get through it =) I'm still going to get to 8", it'll just take me a little bit longer than I thought.

I'm starting to understand that life is tough, but as I've heard before... "Tough times don't last, tough people do" ..

This really is a great board and the support is unbelievable.

Thanx guys =)

[Canuck]

YGUY7

I will add my little bit to this conversation. Make sure that in each day you leave a little time for just yourself. What you do with this time is yours and be selfish with it. The rest of the day is dedicated to all the other thing that you must do, and everyone else has pretty much summed them up here. Just wish my 26 year old son would realise what you have.

Good luck and do stick around.

Canuck

Dino,

That was very well said. The wife is either complaining because you don't have any money (which means you are spending a lot of time at home) or she never sees you (which means the credit cards are maxed and you're working your ass off just to keep your head above water). Yguy, next stop...women and kids!

BTW, short workouts are great!

TC

[dino775]

Thanks tomcat

This is one of those weeks nothing but work, can't even find time to pee never mind pe. But I'm hoping for a better week next week. had time for two 20 min jelq sessions all week.

Dino