Frequencey of sex after gains?

[luvdadus]

This is mainly for those who have had good gains and have a steady sex partner. I have been keeping track of how often sex has been for the past several months and I can tell you that frequency has increased about 30% (from 10/month to 13/month). It seems that I saw a survey somewhere that indicated that large men (7.5" and greater in length) have twice as many partners on average as small and average men (no difference between small and average). It seems that my experience is due probably to a combination of factors. I speculate that increased size results in increased pleasure for her and hence more episodes of her initiating sex as well as increased receptivity to my advances. I cannot exclude th possibility that I could be working harder on seduction skills, but it seems like I'm not doing anything different in that dept. for the past year or so. Comments?? Any body else with similar or opposite experience??

[luvdadus]

I continue to note increased frequency of sex.
In fact compared to her past behaviour wifey is becoming a "hose beast". I have not gotten those words, and looks "don't you ever have enough"!!! She seems willing any time I am, although I have not tried to get extreme in testing the limits. I can definitely say she is more often multiorgasmic than before. She also has begun to occaisionally let out a little scream (mainly moans and groans before). I asked if I hurt her and she assures me that I didn't. I assume now that some of the sensations that were new to her 2 or so months ago have been acclimated to and that she now finds them pleasurable. I'll have to have a more direct conversation with her about the status of that before I decide whether to go for any more length. Also her orgasms are more often "gushers" than they used to be. With her new easy receptivity to me now I feel like mr monsterdick studmuffin. I predict that I'll end up going for more size by the end of this year, but I'll not rush it. It is encouraging though that she seems to be acclimating to the new size well.

[dino775]

luvdadus


Told you she would adjust, The size really helps no doubt about it.
the added size really helps there is no doubt in my mind. I was having sex the other night and my girl was on top and I would grab her right above the hips and pull her down on me and at the same time thrust up and I would get right into that cul-de-sac thing on the bottom and she would cum so much I lost count. Now I'm no better a lover than I was 2 years ago but 2 years ago I couldn't hit the sweet spot.


Dino

[luvdadus]

Well, frequency has continued to improve (15-16 times a month now!!). She has this month initiated sex MUCH more than she ever has in the past. She also has had more multi orgasmic days as well. I think that the reason for this is that since she is getting more of what she needs, she is more apt to initiate.

[RB]

I can't say our frequency is up as with a teenager and an 8 year old in the house, finding alone time is a bitch. However, she is much more receptive when the time does arise, and has become much more multi orgasmic, her behaviour mirrors the above quite a bit. I sense she knows now that when we have sex, she is gonna cum, often more than not :)

[drgmerlin]

Hmmm, very interesting. I'm not sure my frequency has increased-maybe some, but the biggest difference is the quality of the sex. Yes, Dino, that is a very sweet spot. I also let her get on top and bury the bone. I can feel her cervix and her CDS so well, but i grab her by the hips and rotate her pussy in little circles. This makes my dick swirl around inside her. That makes her cummer jump up fast.

I think the frequency would jump up if we had the time and privacy. I hate it when other shit gets in the way like jobs, and other people. My girl wants it all the time. I love it when she begs me for it. What a turn on when she says, "Oh please, put your dick inside me NOW!

[vivace]

Considering my wife and I for the past 15 years use to have sex a few times a year....I know, it just happened when the kids came. SHe turned off and I got busy.

Since starting PE , I started to pursue and she ran. After about 3 years of this, lots of angry outbursts, and bad times--sleeping in the spare bedroom for the past year. Dr. Phil's show woke her up--a little. We now are up to once a week, and Damn, the extra length and girth was a surprise to her (she doesn't no about my PE).

She definately has just begun to make comments, touches me , and gives me wedgies out side of the bedroom as well as seemingly enjoying our newly started sex episodes which she has initiated two times--a first for her. albeit either early in the morning or very late at night--Kid's ya know. Instead of rejecting me, she has started to beg off with a promise for the next day. I usually avoid her until she initiates which, surprise the shit out of me, she has done consistently. This is a benchmark for our marriage.

I went from about 5.7 by 4.7 to 7 by 5.2. Almost three years. I am a slow gainer. I also started an exersize program at the same time and I am pretty darn buff right now. I never thought my body would transform into what it has. I am almost embarrassed when I see people I haven't seen for years. They stare and comment profusely and avert there eyes alot. There wives smile and stare,LOL. I think the transformation scared my wife big time. She has become very self conscious, but that is beginning to ease a bit now.

Hopefully this good trend will continue and improve, both the PE increases and my sex life.

I have read just about every relationship book out there, and tried everything. I have made some pretty grave errors too.

Men, sometimes a marriage shake-up is necessary. If you are game, check with me, I have made all of the mistakes--short of an affair. It amazes me how upset I was and what I was thinking of doing (divorce) over the no sex thing. Scarey as I look back now.

[J Meister]

Vivace,
Congratulations on all the new improvements in your life! I have always read your posts with interest because many facets of your life experiences mirror my own. Reluctant wife--no sex for long periods of time; similar starting sizes, you started PE a little after I did, slow PE gainer, similar PE gains--we're exactly the same size now; etc. I'm very happy for you. Maybe there's hope for resolving my remaining issues!

How old are you? I'd love to hear more about others' reactions to your new buff physique. I'm sure you've got some great stories. As for me, I've never let myself get completely out of shape; however, I can't say that I've got washboard abs at the moment. I've maintained a body fat percentage of 17 to 20% the past six years or so; right now I'm at 20%.

May both our wives become cock-worshipping sex slaves and sex goddesses! Keep us posted on further developments.

[Bib]

viv,

That post really touched my heart. I am so glad things are getting better, and I hope that both your marriage and unit continue to grow and grow.

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