View Full Version : Cut or UnCUT? Which would you prefer if you have or have had the option and why??
romanntiko
10-08-2002, 01:47 PM
The reason why I'm conducting this poll is because as some of you may know, I'm still interested in getting "a little off the top". I want to make sure its something that will truely benefit me and not make me impotent (lived all my life with foreskin).
Personally, I like how my cock looks with the skin retracted but if in the long run I will have issues down the line then I rather not have the procedure done.
~R~
luvdadus
10-09-2002, 05:55 AM
I am cut and I like it. I think that it gives me more control since I am not over sensitive in the glans and can screw for a decent amount of time so that I can make wifey cum first. I do like the uncut look though. I wonder if women have a preference about giving blowjobs to cut or uncut men. My gut says they would prefer cut most of the time but an uncut one with good hygiene could be nice change of pace.
I am uncut (circumcision is not usual in my country) and I am very happy. I wouldn't give my foreskin for thousands of $$$ ;) ... In my opinion a penis looks better with foreskin, and my girl loves to play with it ... but maybe that is just my personal opinion because I um uncut ...
romanntiko
10-09-2002, 12:41 PM
Fazquez,
I'm not sure if that's in this forum. I have used the search function and there really isn't a good discussion on getting cut.
~R~
Charlie
10-09-2002, 02:09 PM
I am cut and wish very much that I was NOT. How your dick looks with the foreskin pulled back is not what it will look like if you are circumcised.
romanntiko
10-09-2002, 02:19 PM
Why Charlie are you unhappy being cut? This is what I'm really interested in knowing
~R~
crazyJLK
10-09-2002, 02:53 PM
i just think its pretty dick to not have the option to get cut later in life... stupid parents =/
Thorne
10-10-2002, 02:47 AM
I chose cut for a few reasons.
First would be the hygeine issue. I don't like smegma. I'm not even sure what it looks like, but I've read and heard about what it is and it really isn't something I'd want.
Secondly, supposedly being cut makes you able to last longer because you're not so overly sensitive down there....and I'm not selfish when it comes to that. So if I had to choose between
a.) having foreskin and having the most INTENSE orgasms and receiving the most pleasure of my life or b.) not having foreskin that covers and/or hangs over my glans and able to last 4 hours+ during sex and giving my girl the most pleasure she's ever had in her life...I'd instantly choose 'b'.
I've already chosen 'b'.
Not saying that uncut guys can't give their girls pleasure, I'm just saying "statistically" that uncut guys can't last as long...supposedly.
And lastly, 99.9% of the women I know (alot of them I've known ever since grade school) hate uncut cocks. They say they don't like the way they look, the way they feel, the way they smell, blahblahblah. One girl I know calls them 'aardcocks' and she says that she keeps waiting for it to start sucking up ants outside or something. Most of the girls I know have been with both, cut and uncut, and they prefer cut...sure, while they're with the uncut guy they'll tell them how much they love it, how much it turns them on, etc...but when they get around their friends - the truth comes out.
I mean how many times have you gone down on a girl only to discover a fish factory, yet you tell her how much you like it?
Do you REALLY like it?
Do you tell your friends that you REALLY like it or do you tell them what you really think of it?
Some of them say the only good thing about an uncut cock is the feeling of the skin sliding when they're being fucked, some say that that feeling is too 'weird' and 'packy' (whatever the hell that means) for them; but in all honesty every guy's dicks' skin slides - or at least it should.
I know mine slides alot and I'm cut.
A couple girls I know told me some stories about how much they LOVED uncut cocks and one of them told me this story about how she liked to lick up, chew and swallow smegma. She described it different ways like that it was thick&oily. Other times she described it as 'earwaxy' and 'kind of like salty cheese'.
She went into huge detail about it and it disgusted me on how much she was getting off on this, but then again she was a freak who did OTHER things. I guess she's in that other .1%.
So, personally I see no great attribute to being uncut...
This is what I've found out about smegma:
"It moisturizes the glans and keeps it smooth, soft, and supple. Its antibacterial and antiviral properties keep the penis clean and healthy. It lubricates the cavity between the foreskin of the penis and the glans, thus allows smooth movement between them during intercourse."
I don't know, but they make it sound like our cocks are made out of porcelain or something and they're so fragile. My head is "smooth, soft, and supple" and it's still very sensitive especially my frenum area, so what are they talking about? If I was any more sensitive there I'd be having multiple orgasms while pissing.
I take showers every day, I clean the hell out of my cock...I spend more time on that than any other part. So I'm pretty sure I keep it clean and healthy on my own that way, I don't need a layer of earwaxy salt cheese to let me know I'm "A-Okay".
So I chose to have a 'Bishop' instead of an 'Anteater' on the poll.
Personally, I don't see the big deal why people freak out over this circumcision thing..."Stop the Brutality!" blahblahblah.
People should focus their energy on other more important things to help the world instead of this.
So if you wanna get a little off the top, do it. It's not going to hurt your sex life at all, it's not going to make you impotent at all...in this day and age of "Stop the Brutality!" there are going to be as many arguments FOR being uncut as there are going to be for being cut.
But at least now you have the choice of what you want instead of having the choice made for you when you were born.
Do whatever you desire.
romanntiko
10-10-2002, 11:48 AM
Thank you for your input Thorne! Hahahhaha "Anteater" that sounds funny!
Fazquez can you give me the link to that article?
Thanks!
~R~
Thorne
10-10-2002, 07:22 PM
Thank, but "anteater" wasn't my word to describe it.
I'm glad you thought it was funny and didn't get all mad and freak out over it.
Nice to know that people can sitll have a sense of humor about this stuff.
Biguli
10-11-2002, 11:43 AM
I am cut, and I'd have to choose cut, but with just a little extra skin to play with.
I'm cut, but would much rather have enough skin to cover my entire penis like I was born with.
Uncircumcised guys generally have much more control over when they cum. The most pleasurable sensations I receive are from stimulation to what's left of my inner foreskin, which I'm missing about 90% of. :(
I choose cut when I was 27 (now 34) and it was one of the best decissions of my life.
take care,
pole
Guy Tare
11-07-2002, 09:53 AM
I am uncut and i am happy like that .
Darkover
11-11-2002, 07:11 PM
I am uncut and like it that way.
On the smegma thing. If you wash everyday you will never have it. I think it takes at least 3 or 4 days without washing to get smegma.
Mr Cavernosa
11-12-2002, 04:30 PM
Did you guys ever think about the fact that you're not only mutilating your 'centre of manlihood' but also cut out precisely the area with most nerve endings. To me that seems completely nuts and, call me selfish if you will, but my pleasure has a lot to do with the amount of pleasure i can give to my partner. Controlling your orgasm is a completely different issue and, in my opinion, has more to do with intimate knowledge of your own body and mental discipline than with circumcision but isn't it at least as important what you feel on the way to orgasm?
Stroke your gf's skin, hair, breasts, nipples with your fingertips and explore the 'feel' of every little bit of her body. Now imagine you cut out the most sensitive part of your skin on each of your fingerips, let it heal, scar over and then you do the same thing. You still feel something but scar tissue never has nerve endings near the surface and therefore the sensation will be a lot more dull and coarse.
I don't question that a circumcised man can still enjoy sex and reach orgasm but I cannot imagine that cutting out 90 percent of your nerve endings that mother nature put there for a good reason will not effect your sensation, sensitivity and overall feel.
The skin is the most erogenous organ of the human body and the man's foreskin is the most sensitive and erogenous part of that - I wouldn't sacrifice it for anything in the world and allowing circumcision on myself without an underlying medical condition would be almost like sexual suicide for me.
In terms of girls, I have so far only met one girl who preferred cut to uncut. All my other girls I knew loved the natural look, feel and the fact that you don't rub against a scar when you touch the upper part of a penis. Personal hygiene is of course a must but not only for uncut men and smegma only occurs in perpubertarian boys as part of the penile development. In adults it is a mixture of skin ands skin products that accumulates after several days of not washing the respective area. If you wash yourself only half regularly nothing like it will ever occur and the entire issue is part of the foreskin-phobic pro-circumcision propaganda in North America.
No offense to all you circumcised guys but in my eyes you are all victims of a Victorian Puritan brainwash machinery that was put into gear centuries ago. It was hostile towards sexuality and the natural human body and resulted in penile mutilation on a mass scale. Hygiene was, and unfortunately still is put out as a poor excuse to cover up the real incentives, even though modern statistics proove that uncircumcised men have a lower penis cancer rate and a significantly lower risk of receiving sexually transmitted diseases (I cannot recall the exact quote but my source of information is a respected North American medical journal).
Just make sure you are REALLY sure that you want to go through with this for yourself and not for your partner or any kind of peer pressure. It is a decision that is irreversible once it's done and if your not a hundred percent sure I would rather give some time and thought.
Good luck!!
When
romanntiko
11-14-2002, 11:10 AM
Mr Cavernosa,
Very good input, you have definitely made me think deeper on this subject.
~R~
EnlargeMe
12-04-2002, 11:51 AM
I'm uncut and i'm pretty happy wit it because i like the way it looks when the blood is engorged into the head. it makes the penis look much bigger. And...when entering a girl, i think an uncut head would make her feel it more since its fatter than a cut. But I think theres benefits of being cut and uncut
pemonsta8
01-12-2003, 01:08 PM
i have been both, and i'd say if your not worried about the ladies will think, then stay uncut!
3000gt
01-14-2003, 01:53 AM
I have been cut all my life and am very happy this way. Dont get me wrong, I have nothing against the uncut look. However, i dont know one girl who likes it. I have watched porn with many girls and when they see an uncut guy, they think it is gross. It may just be cause they arent used to it. Im sure after seeing it like that for a while it wouldnt be a big deal. But Ive never met a girl who thought a cut penis looked gross.
3000GT
4_8x6
01-14-2003, 04:13 PM
could it be that the girls in question who think an uncut cock is "gross" is because that's how they've been brought up, as well as potentially being misinformed about hygiene issues?
doctors a lot of times will push for circumcision because then they can turn around and sell that skin to medical research facilities for study. that's all well and good, but how about informing parents of these little boy about the options (which doesn't include an anesthetic for these days old babies).
i say if it isn't medically necessary, leave it alone. as far as my status, i'm cut, but given a choice, i'd prefer uncut.
fusion
01-14-2003, 04:42 PM
I am uncut and I love it. Being uncut I have the option of having skin over my glans or pulling it back and not having skin over my glans. The cut guys don't have that option. As for as the smegma, I can only remember having smegma maybe a couple of times, when I was going through puberty. I take a shower once a day, and when I do, I pull back the skin and clean with soap and water. If I have a date I do an extra good job. No smegma. My mother told me as a grown up that she and my Dad decided to give me and my brother the option of being cut, and, if we wanted to when we grew up, we could do it. I would never do it. I am gay, and a lot of my partners get jealous when they find out I am uncut. A few of them say it was the first one they ever saw and really liked playing with it (so did I!!!)
Thorne
01-16-2003, 12:30 AM
I've noticed that.
No offense intended, but 100% of the girls I know hate uncut cocks and most of the gay guys that I know love uncut cocks.
They like to "Chew on the hood".
Weird.
Also, what can or what do medical research facilities study with circumcised skin from a newborn exactly?
What can they determine or what are they even looking for?
I don't think any of the girls I know were ever brought up to think uncut cocks are gross. I can't imagine any of their parents sitting them down with flash cards and slide shows showing pics of uncuts saying, "You must hate these because they are filthy" blahblahblah.
I think it just comes from growing up and seeing and experiencing the difference between the two and having their own opinion, much like the opinions we have in here on the topic.
I can remember the first time I showed a picture of an uncut cock to a female friend of mine a LONG time ago. I think we were both 15 at the time and we went into a novelty store that had a ton of things in there and among them were porn rags.
One was completely dedicated to the uncut cock.
So I picked it up and showed it to her and she almost vomited.
She said, "Oh my god! What's that? Is that a ... is that supposed to be a penis? What's wrong with it?"
I told her it was uncircumcised.
That was the first one she had ever seen and she was repulsed, but also curious. So we kept looking thru it and she kept getting more disgusted until she couldn't look at it anymore.
Now mind you, I wasn't doing anything to enhance her judgments or her sickness, I was just there with her - and to this day she still gets really ill when she hears "uncut"...even if it has to do with film.
Such as "The uncut version" of *insert film title here*
You should've seen her face when she read about smegma.
That was priceless.
But that's just one girl that I know, the majority of the others don't go to that extreme of almost vomiting, but they make their opinion known in more subtle ways.
Whatever, to each his own. Or her own.
twatteaser
01-16-2003, 12:50 AM
I don't want my foreskin back in fact i am looking for ways to make sure PE doesn't give me this unwanted gift. I agree with Thorne on the issue. I think that he summed it up well. I had a female white boss who was from the MidWest and slept around and never did a cut guy and was asking about it at work. I don't know if cause she only chased black guys that they are less likely to be cut or not?
I think Porn from the American perspective slanted our views of uncut being not likeable.
I thought that the foreskins were sold for skin graft like material for burn victims. What do I know.
Thorne
01-16-2003, 02:01 AM
Hmm, skin graft.
That's a possibility, I didn't consider that.
That's gotta be weird for the person getting the graft though.
I think it's all a matter of being curious.
Uncuts wonder what it's like to be cut, cuts wonder what it's like to be uncut, 6 inchers wonder what it's like to be 10 inchers, and on and on and on, regardless of your gender.
Small tit girls wonder about having double D's, brunettes wanna be blondes...it's all how it is and vice versa.
It just boils down to being curious.
No big deal.
Chodem1
02-09-2003, 05:48 PM
I'm a medical student at a VERY well known school (been in the top 5 med schools for the last 10 years) and actually came across some research toward the end of my undergraduate years in this field. Being cut drastically reduces the chances of contracting the HIV virus. A (now, not then) collegue of mine performed this experiment in Africa. Couples where one was infected with HIV and the other clean were targetted. I don't remember the exact figures, but if I ever decide to search through the library stacks I'll post them, but I know it was over a 95% better chance of not contracting HIV for circumsized males (Not one of the over 100 couples where the male was circumsized ended up transmitting the virus). It has everything to do with HIV's ability to infect WBCs and the presence of WBCs in semen. Basically, the virus is carried by a WBC to the partner. Foreskin promotes this carrying and gives the HIV a sort of safe haven. I'm not saying this means we should all get cut or whatever, but it's something not very well known that I felt obligated to share with all of you.
-Ron
P.S. If you want more info on the Biological Physics behind this transmission, feel free to PM me. I have a lot of notes on this subject and would be more than happy to share it if anyone was genuinely interested.
Wt282
02-26-2003, 02:45 PM
Cut here... but I wouldn't mind being partially cut. Just enough to go against the norms of the guys here in the U.S.
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
02-28-2003, 12:25 AM
I'm going to get cut some time this spring due to medical reasons. Foreskin cracking and creating chapping skin etc. I was given creams and more creams, but not one of them fixed it. So now it seems only to be causing problems, so it's coming off. I'll be able to give a verdict whether I like being uncut or not when I've had the operation.. If I don't like it, well, there is foreskin restoration. LOL. So I'll give my input one beautiful day... The queues are long for this surgery, so I don't know when it's my turn. All I know is that afterwards it needs 4-6 weeks to heal. LOL, imagine what massive load that will generate... 4-6 weeks without any sexual stimulation. whoa.
Insane_man
02-28-2003, 12:33 AM
Hey Wt, you could try foreskin restoration.
It has been a side effect of PE for me. My skin doesn't go over the head, but it's loose and more useful.
romanntiko
02-28-2003, 09:25 AM
Originally posted by Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
I'm going to get cut some time this spring due to medical reasons. Foreskin cracking and creating chapping skin etc. I was given creams and more creams, but not one of them fixed it. So now it seems only to be causing problems, so it's coming off. I'll be able to give a verdict whether I like being uncut or not when I've had the operation.. If I don't like it, well, there is foreskin restoration. LOL. So I'll give my input one beautiful day... The queues are long for this surgery, so I don't know when it's my turn. All I know is that afterwards it needs 4-6 weeks to heal. LOL, imagine what massive load that will generate... 4-6 weeks without any sexual stimulation. whoa.
Definitely keep us posted.
R
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
03-23-2003, 01:44 AM
Hi guys. I'll be under the knife April 7th.. Yowsa.
twatteaser
03-27-2003, 04:32 AM
please give us before and after pics.
TazGirl
03-28-2003, 09:10 PM
I would have to say I prefer Cut ... and I used to say I would NEVER have sex with uncut... well never say never. That changed about a month ago. (blush)
BiggerDaddyShinryuu,
HUG.. wishing you best of luck.
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
03-30-2003, 02:50 AM
Twatteaser? You want before/after pictures? May I ask why? LOL, don't have a digital camera. ;-)
TazGirl, thank you very much. :)
sputnik
03-30-2003, 07:25 AM
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu,
Do they give you the option of how much to take off?
I know that there has been occasional mention of being partially circ'ed in the forum somewhere, earlier in this thread maybe?
And speaking of skin grafts, couldn't the problem of tearing be solved by adding a little skin to the area, rather than removing it?
Oh well, best of luck in any case.
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
03-30-2003, 08:28 AM
Well, in this case, I don't know if there is an option. I did have some skin cut off when I was younger, but apparently they cut off too little.
Adding skin? do you mean by jelqing? I've tried that already, but it doesn't seem to be working as I want it to. I get some extra skin "bunch up" near the head, but the skin doesn't seem to grow in the direction I want it to. (around rather than length-wise). Anyway, it's painful when the skin cracks, so it might be better to have it cut.
In any case, if I want my foreskin back, I'll try some restoration techniques. I might even like the cut look and feel, who knows? I'll pick up PE once again sometime, maybe to restore some skin to ease masturbation. :) Anyway, I'll probably be through hell, since the operation means no sex for 4-6 weeks. It will be difficult to spend time with GF, since kissing often leads to erection. LOL I wonder if I need a longer rest in order to resume PE...
Thanks for your thoughts. :)
/BDS
lol. dont EVER cut your foreskin off. i am uncut and proud.
i read in mens health (august 2001 i think) that 95% of women who have had unprotected sex with both cut and uncut women PREFER uncut. for some reason it feels much better to them due to the gliding action or something like that (i dont remember exactly).
in canada, its become illegal for doctors to circumcise any child unless they have full consent of both parents.
around the world, cut men are a minority BY FAR!! in europe its around 3-4% cut men ~96% uncut. thats a big difference between the near 50/50 split here in north america. the numbers for uncut are going up however and last i read it was around 60/40 for the uncut. or something like that.
just my 2 cents.
dont fix it if it aint broke. you may think its looks normal and better cut...but thats not how it in the rest of the world.
Insane_man
04-01-2003, 05:45 PM
Originally posted by popp
lol. dont EVER cut your foreskin off.
.....
dont fix it if it aint broke. you may think its looks normal and better cut...but thats not how it in the rest of the world.
I believe that Big Daddy's is broke, and thus requires fixing. :)
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
04-01-2003, 11:16 PM
Hehe Popp, thank you for your thoughts. To me, uncut is normal too, since I have lived in Sweden all my life. But as Insane_man said, I need fixing. Having the foreskin has become painful (skin cracking etc), so a removal is necessary. :)
romanntiko
04-11-2003, 10:52 AM
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu,
How was the surgery? How do you feel? TEll us!
R
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
04-18-2003, 04:02 AM
Surgery was as you expect it to be. Filled with nervousness. ;) However, I asked the doc if we could try that alternate surgery were several small "*******" are made to widen the foreskin. He agreed, since it was not too tight. Besides, the foreskin cracking occured only when having sex or masturbating, so it was ok to try it. The team there were great, calming me down etc. Was given shots so I wouldn't feel the pain.. But they used too little first, so I felt the pain of the knife. (OUCH) After a few more shots though, I didn't feel a thing. After the surgery, my willy was all swollen because of the shots. Nice girth LOL! Had a big bump in my pants. Hehe... So it wasn't a complete circumcision, as I still have my foreskin. He did remove the frenulum though... It has gone 11 days now, and 3 have already disappeared. Just can't wait until the two on the left side disappear, so I can pull back my foreskin again and wash it.. (it stinks now!) You see the stitches make it almost impossible to pull back the foreskin completely... At least there's no pain now, so now I'm playing the waiting game. :)
/BDS
romanntiko
04-19-2003, 01:08 PM
That's so good to hear! Dam, you felt the knife! That shit must of hurt!
R
Bigger Daddy Shinryuu
04-20-2003, 04:09 AM
Yeah, it hurt as hell. But after feeling that pain, I feel invincible! LOL
kong1971
04-14-2004, 02:20 PM
I am restoring my foreskin right now. It is as simple as PE and only takes about a year to get good coverage. I am unhappy with being cut due to a very tight circ and loss of sensitivity. So far, I have noticed a dramatic increase in pleasure when lovemaking due to keeping the glans covered at all times. I think every man should have the choice, when he is an adult, whether he would like to have that part removed.
romanntiko
09-18-2004, 11:34 AM
I agree with you Kong, choice is the key. I have decided that I want to get the cut. I found a surgeon who has great skills and can tailor your circ. to ones needs. For example I want my frenulum intact as I found that to be very sensitive in my penis. But I just have too much foreskin!
When the time comes to settle and marry and start a family, if I am blessed with a boy I am definitely going to give him choice.
bigeasy
06-03-2005, 04:09 PM
I'm cut and like it just fine. I'm actually loosely cut to be exact. Little extra skin there covers a bit of the head.
I tell you what though. A good friend of ours is a gynecologist and she asks all of her patients if their boyfriends/husbands are circumcised.
The reason is, on the recieving end for a woman, there is far more documented issues with women who have uncircumcised husbands.
She got all technical on me but basically she said that infection and gynecological complications are far more frequent.
willber
12-10-2007, 06:44 PM
Im uncut and that will never change, as someone has allready said it gives you a choice - pull back or leave as is. And as far as hygeine iv never had a problem, as long as you shower daily (which you should do anyway) and pull back your foreskin then you're good to go
I was given a loose circumcision when it was done and my frenulum was kept. I have restored completely the foreskin so from my experience I think I would have liked to be kept in uncut. Although, I think I might have some cut off, because it often seems that uncut guys have "too much." My restored foreskin puckers and gives complete coverage. At first the cleanliness issue was a problem, but that is just what others have already said, just take care of it daily. I have tried keeping the foreskin pulled back to see how I like, covered or uncovered and find I prefer covered. iowa
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