Do women "brag" about thier sex life?

[luvdadus]

I originally posted this in DW's forum over at thunder's. I'll throw it out for comment over here as well:

My wife is a "band mom". In the last two weeks when attending band functions another band mom friend of hers let on that she was aware of how good the wife and I's sex life was and that she was envious. I don't think I could put into words how she let this come across, but it was clear what her meaning was. I guess a combination of body language alone with facial expressions accompanying her words. This happend twice in two weeks. It made me wonder two things. 1) What was her motivation for letting her envy about this be known to me? I guess I could be over analyzing. She needn't be trying to get me to hit on her (it won't happen). 2) Has my wife been "bragging" about how good her sex life is? Ladies, I would appreciate any comments about your own experiences and any comment on what I have related.
Guy's - any of you have any thing similar happen?

[Thorne]

I'm almost positive girls brag about their sex lives, their friends' sex lives, their friends' friends' sex lives, celebrities sex lives and so on a million times more than we do.

[luvdadus]

I sure would love to be a fly on the wall for some of these conversations;)

[SirJelqAlot]

i think that girls either say that a guy is shit in bed and has a small dick if she doesnt like him at all, or if she likes him hes a stud, and hung like a hourse, and can go 10 times a night, and makes her breakfast in bed, and takes her shopping and pays for everything, and... oh you get the idea.

SJA

[luvdadus]

I think you have touched on a good point. I don't think thier assesments are quite as concrete and clinical as ours. I think that emotion and other issues in the relationship can color thier comments about us.

[AverageSized]

Like it's been said.

I think women are generally more... "dishonest" when it comes down to talking about sex...

Most guys will share the details, all the details if needed. And we dont' generally lie.

But women I find ... stretch the truth. If they like you ... great for you. If they dont' ... watch out. :D

[THE TECHNICIAN]

I know they talk about sex, I worked with a store full of women for two years and sometimes I would over hear them talking about lovers they had and had done. Hell one time my manager amade the comment hat she hoped i was as big as her husband. I was young then and kind of considered her a mother figure, so when she said that I was embarrased as hell. Cause for one, my manager and her husband claimed he was hung (so I believed them), and second I had fucked one of the cashiers and she said she hadn't cum after an hour and a half of fucking and I wondered if she had said something.

[Guy Tare]

In my group of friends , there is only one girl . She got a boyfriend and , for the last month , she can't stop bragging about him . She say stuff like : " He got a huge dick , He got a 7" dick but it's unimportant because his grith is monstruous , bla bla bla ." . She is slowly driving me mad . I just hope i have found PE 3 years ago so i can drop a paq of Trojan Magnum in front of her and tell her with a straight face to hope her boyfriend got a penis as huge as mine .

If she say that stupid shit in front of us is because she must have a good reason . I can found 3 reasons :

1=>She don't have a huge female friend group to brag about her sex life so she brag to us .

2=>Since everybody in the gang except one is presently single , she feel the need to "keep us at bay".

3=>She have problems with her sex life and she try to dismiss it by screaming on the rooftops that everything is rosy.

I just wanna know two things about all this . 1-Why she is doing this ? and 2-How can i make her stop ?

[luvdadus]

1-Why she is doing this?>>

-She may be announcing that she is slutty and wants to increase her chances of getting action by advertising.
-Some people take perverse pleasure at humiliting others. I think it makes her feel important and superior to the rest of the group.

and 2-How can i make her stop ?>>

-Quit hanging with her.
-Embarass her about it.
-Ask her why she keeps bringing this up with a bunch of guys, is she trying to get a gang bang going?
(she might actually like that idea).

[SirJelqAlot]

ive always heard girls talking about guys dicks, i think its what they do, i think another reason is because girls like to know how big other guys are, so if she says her guy is 7" you might say "oh im 8" then she might start hitting on you. just a theory,

SJA

[Gandolf]

Girl's do try and make their friends envious. This is actually the main reason they make all those ridiculous claims about dick size (ex. my boyfriend is really big, he's about 10 inches and as thick as a coke can.) They do exagerate at times, of course. But yes, if things are going well, they tell their friends every intimate detail about their sex lives to make their friends jealous.

[SirJelqAlot]

i can never imagine a girl saying "oh my boyfriend is so sweet and nice, hes got a tiny dick, but i love him anyway", doesnt have the same ring to it as "myboyfriend is a fucking stallion hes about a foot long and so thick i cant fit two hands around it", well that might be an exaggeration.

SJA

[Alex Parisi]

I have heard women rant and rave about penis size before. Like 'my boyfriend has the BEST dick, its so nice and thick and bla bla bla.' I always wanted to tell the guy like lucky you man, your girl loves your member.

[Gandolf]

Originally posted by Alex Parisi
I have heard women rant and rave about penis size before. Like 'my boyfriend has the BEST dick, its so nice and thick and bla bla bla.' I always wanted to tell the guy like lucky you man, your girl loves your member. But remember, they dont always say it because its true. Lots of times they either have an alterier motive (ex. to make others jealous), or are simply believing what they want to believe.

[TazGirl]

Originally posted by AverageSized

I think women are generally more... "dishonest" when it comes down to talking about sex...

Most guys will share the details, all the details if needed. And we dont' generally lie.

But women I find ... stretch the truth. If they like you ... great for you. If they dont' ... watch out. :D

Sorry, I would have to disagree here. Well, from my point of view anyway.

Yes, at times we do brag about the good sex we get. It is like a learning session I guess.

I have only once been mean and bragged to a girl about sex with a certain guy.. going in detail at times. Like how good it felt when I got up on top of him (make him take one of my nipples in his mouth as I hold his head) and grind on him hard in a certain way that I can feel every inch of his..... I get so excited I just loose control. (heehee) But she deserved it going after my guy.. I just acted like I didn't know she did it. And bragged away. But it was always the truth and it was GREAT!!!

I have never put down a guy for not being good at sex, cause they always made up in other areas ;)

[luvdadus]

>>I have never put down a guy for not being good at sex, cause they always made up in other areas >>

Good for you Taz, but I'm afraid the same cannot be said for all. I think it is much too common for a vengeful bitch of a woman to spread around to her friends that you are tiny and shitty in bed to screw her ex's prospects (with her friends at least) for good.
By the same token she might brag about a mediocre lover (assuming she really likes him otherwise) just to gain the envy of her acquaintences.

[TazGirl]

Will never understand why some feel the need to cut someone down all the time.

I was always taught to try to find the good in people, but I guess sometimes the good if more hidden in some ...sigh.

I was also taught to treat others as you would want to be treated. And I wouldnt want anyone making fun of my small boobs or anything. (something I am working on fixing) :P

[RB]

You boobs are lovely :)

[TazGirl]

Thanks RB.
I would say BIG boobie hug but will you settle for Big squishing little boobie hug? giggle. XO (ok blushing now)

[RB]

From you? Anything... :)

[TazGirl]

Giggling.. Come get your special hug then. ;)