Help Approaching Women

[Alex Parisi]

I have a problem approaching strange women, because I am shy. Even though I am still pretty damn young, I feel like its still a huge problem of mine.

I am in my 20s and I feel like a schoolboy when I see a pretty woman! I cannot even get myself to start a conversation with her. I am a pretty good looking guy, with a fairly good physique, etc.

I dont know what my problem is. What do you guys think? Do any of you have trouble approaching a totally strange woman?

[luvdadus]

fastseduction.com

Its a free site with load of valuable information, technoques etc.

[Stillwantmore22]

Or if you wanna learn how to be the Grand Pooba of self loving assholes who believes all women should bow down and kiss your dick (oh hey....) before saying hi to you, go check out the "Donwan" forum.....I dont know the site url but, surely a google search would turn it up. Dont get me wrong its a great laugh with a couple Jack 'N Cokes and some popcorn on a late night. All humor aside, I can relate to your "problem". Check out a book called Skill With People by Les Giblin (think thats how you spell his name) you can find it online at Amazon.com as far as I know or your local big book store like Booksamillion would have it or could order it. It's a quick read and should help you out. You can apply the principles (the key is APPLICATION) to any social situation.

[SirJelqAlot]

ive always had a problem with confidance, i think all people do to some extent, the way i got around it was to force myself to look confidant and go with it, ie. next time you see a hot girl, force yorself to go over and look confidant, its hard to do, yes, but eventually it becomes easier.

on a related note, speaking in front of a crowd was voted the no. 1 fear of the average americain, to put things in perspective, no. 2 was death. so you are not alone.

SJA

[Stillwantmore22]

Holy Shnikees! DEATH was second to speaking in front of a large crowd??? NO WAY! Maybe more people should attend Toast Masters??
http://www.toastmasters.org/

[SirJelqAlot]

lol, i know, i dont think its totally accurate, ie people were asked what are your top 10 fears, i think it would be more like what are you most afraid of, well i hope so, if not, then people are stupid.

SJA

[Stillwantmore22]

Yea guys, too bad we live in modern, civilized times...ya could just walk up to a girl, club her over the head and drag her back to your cave. SIGH, the good ole' days.....

[maxwell]

Alex here is a link you might want to check out. Its a free site with loads of valuable information, it's a forum much like this but for picking up women.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/index.php

[twatteaser]

Originally posted by Stillwantmore22
Yea guys, too bad we live in modern, civilized times...ya could just walk up to a girl, club her over the head and drag her back to your cave. SIGH, the good ole' days.....

Just make sure that when you drag her back you pull her by the hair and not the legs. I noticed a tendency for them to fill up with dirt down there when done the wrong way. ;)

[Gandolf]

www.sosuave.com

Check out this site, it is a forum that is run very similar to this one. There are a few stupid kids who post dumb shit, but it teaches everything you could possibly want to know about dating/approaching/seducing/ect... females. Check it out.

[YGuy]

Like HughJorgan used to say, "Every shot not taken is a missed shot."

You need to lose the fear of rejection.

And you could pretend you're drunk when you approach a girl :D Worked for me a few times. They tried to take advantage of me, thinking I was out of it, but I knew what was up ;)

[romanntiko]

Originally posted by Gandolf
www.sosuave.com

Check out this site, it is a forum that is run very similar to this one. There are a few stupid kids who post dumb shit, but it teaches everything you could possibly want to know about dating/approaching/seducing/ect... females. Check it out.

Highly agree with Gandolf, sosuave.com works! Read the bible and you should get started. Read and read! Then practice, practice and practice! Post back your results. Yesterday I saw a hot as broad in the library w the nicest ass you guys can imagine and I was all shy and didn't even attempt to talk to her. Back to sosuave....

~R~

[Priapus2000]

The best way to increase your confidence when approaching women is to improve your public speaking ability. You can do this by joining Toast Masters or some other public speaking club.