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Luscious Apparatus
06-24-2003, 12:45 AM
I have a female friend at work who has had a serious gf for 2 years. We haven't talked outside work, but we've been getting along. I have asked her out once months ago--that's when I found out. At that time I asked if she was bi. She said she has been bi. I never brought it up again--we've just been fluff talking at work. Anyway I'm wondering if this couple ever would or has gotten any "help" from a guy ;) or even if the gf allows my friend a lil action w/a guy once in a while. Maybe I could start hanging out w/her or both of em then see what happens. I just hate to be too obvious and ask if they've ever done that. It's not just the idea of a 3some that's motivating me--I'd be interested in her by herself. Have any of you been in a situation like this? Any advice?

Gandolf
06-27-2003, 09:36 PM
Originally posted by Luscious Apparatus
I have a female friend at work who has had a serious gf for 2 years. We haven't talked outside work, but we've been getting along. I have asked her out once months ago--that's when I found out. At that time I asked if she was bi. She said she has been bi. I never brought it up again--we've just been fluff talking at work. Anyway I'm wondering if this couple ever would or has gotten any "help" from a guy ;) or even if the gf allows my friend a lil action w/a guy once in a while. Maybe I could start hanging out w/her or both of em then see what happens. I just hate to be too obvious and ask if they've ever done that. It's not just the idea of a 3some that's motivating me--I'd be interested in her by herself. Have any of you been in a situation like this? Any advice? I KIND OF was in a situation like this. Just know that bisexual women are typically a lot more morally loose about fucking around them straight ones. My advice would be not to get all sappy, let her know you just want some hot sex, no strings attached. But, this all depends on the girl, what kind of vibes is she giving you? Does she flirt with you, or tough you and stuff?

Luscious Apparatus
06-29-2003, 09:58 PM
Flirting? Not really. Some of the signs are there--she seems real comfortable and happy around me which could be just friendliness. She doesn't react negatively to my touching her on the shoulder etc. but doesn't re*****cate. But I need to see how she reacts outside work. If she will hang out with me I'll throw her a few subtle advances and see how she reacts. After all she may not be giving me as much attention as she would if we weren't around co-workers (but it's a large company).

twatteaser
06-30-2003, 12:03 AM
Try Kino so you can use this as a gauge of how much they enjoy touching.