Poll about girlfriends and cockstories

[shonagon53]

Maybe a difficult poll here, but try anyway.

I'm sure most of us have asked our girlfriends what the biggest cock is, they've ever had.

The question for the poll: how many inches do you differ from that "historic" cock?

[Stillwantmore22]

Well, I did not vote as there wasnt really a choice for my reply. I have been with around 10 women (yea, I'm such a stud..of course if I were a woman I'd be a borderline slut right?)...and, not one of them had told me about the "historic" cock from their past. So, I guess (although some came right out and said so) I was their biggest?

[Gandolf]

Dude, this poll will not give us much to go on, you don't REALLY think some girl will ACCURATELY tell a guy, you were exactly 1.2897 inches off the biggest one I ever had, do you? No guy should ever ask this question anyway, it shows insecurity BIG time. I still would have voted, except I have never asked this question.

[ebon00]

In my experience (which totals 32 women to date and I expect it to stay at that) women do not talk about comparisons to the "legendary cock" in their past. I've never heard a single word about it. Then again, I never ask women if they think I'm large or not.

[shonagon53]

I don't wanna be an a**hole, but where I'm from it's quite normal to talk about it. It's fun.
"Hi, my name is XX and I have an 8 inch cock. Nice to meet you."

Well, anyway, all my girlfriends had no problem in having a fine conversation about the male sex organ and the myth of its size.

To my amazement they all could vividly and accurately remember and describe all cocks they've ever had. And what's more, the average cock is much smaller than we expect, according to them.

Maybe they avoid talking about it, even if you ask. But then, that might be a very diplomatic move on their part.... You know how women are.


I'm probably a repressed bisexual, getting excited when my girl talks about her previous lovers and their cocks. But who cares.

Just poll it.

[doublelongdaddy]

Jennifer has been with her share of men and she has shared each and every detail of each guy explicitly down to the last gruesome detail. She told me of 2 men she was with that were large (about the same size as me pre-pe 6.5-7") outside of this she said most men are extremely average or below. At the time I found out about this information I guess I felt good I was right up there with the biggest but gosh it feels so much better now that I am 4" above them now!!! God bless PE!

[john2281]

I don't use to ask ladies about my size.But the recent girl i met just told me I have a big dick, bigger than those man she had meet.Thanks PE, Thought I have gain only 1 1/4" bpel !

[shonagon53]

Indeed, we should thank PE.

And indeed, asking your girlfriends about their previous lovers' dicks can be very enlightening.

They are deadhonest when it comes to that, and they can relativize the entire thing (our obsession is not theirs).
Well, and on such moments they will honestly tell you that the average dick is smaller than you think.

But I already said that.

Anyway, thank God we have PE!

I'm 2 inches above my current girlfriends previous God!

[holmsy]

I think this is a great poll although the results so far have surprised me. I put it down to the fact that women lie to accomodate our egos. Let's say average woman has slept with around 6 - 10 men (conservative figure). Chances are that one of them had an 8 incher. If the average guy is 6 inches that would mean that for most men the answer should be around -2.

[SirJelqAlot]

gandolf, yes it shows insecurity to need to know how you compare, but arent we all be definition insecure because we're on the board, some just more so that others, i know that ive wanted to ask with both the girls ive been with, but ive only fely comfortable to ask one.

SJA

[shonagon53]

I think talking about cocksize with girls doesn't necessarily show insecurity. That's a bit too simple an explanation. There are many different ways to talk about male anatomy with a girl. I mean, it's just one of those things I do, when I'm having fun.

And if you play with the insecurity thing, it gives you precisely the opposite effect. They know you're only asking out of curiosity. And that's very healthy.

Anyway, I learned a lot about sex by talking about it with my girls.

[christof]

I've only slept with 3 women..and I'm 24. A little below normal, I suppose, but not too bad:

1) When I was 14 years old, I lost my virginity to a girl that was 15 and experienced. I didn't know I had a "big" dick back then (8 inches NBP, 5'10", 135 lbs), and I didn't even think about any of her "other ones." What did I care, I was getting laid! After that one time, she never gave it up again. I thought I performed well (~15 minutes). Oh well.

2) When I was 17, I started a long, involved relationship with a 16 year old 5'2 95lb Asian girl. This girl was very experienced and only dated white guys. She told me that I was the best she ever had, and I don't think she was lying. We used to fuck in 45 minute blocks all night long. She'd lie motionless on the bed after we were done and frequently couldn't walk well the next day. Wow. Anyway, she told me I had the perfect size..but by then, I was expecting to be told I was large. Of course, being an insecure teen, I picked and poked to find out about other boyfriends. She told me about 3 white guys...one was 5'8" ish and chubby and had nothing between his legs (my flaccid dick was as big or bigger than his erection). The second guy was a long-term boyfriend with whom she says she hated sex and just did it to make him happy. I figured, OK, the hardware must have been faulty-but then she told me that putting her hand around his dick was like putting your hand around a baseball bat. WTF? I just let it go. The third guy was the one that really got me ticked off..and this bothered me for a long time. Apparently, she once was at a club (she had a DJ friend) and allowed a stranger to lure her to a vacant men's restroom and fuck her in a stall. She said that it was her first time, that he was "way too big," and that she bled afterwards. He sat on the toilet and had her sit on top of him. I pushed and pushed, but could not get anything concrete out of her other than that it was "huge." WTF?!? How fucking big could the guy have been? Was it just her silly perception? She was a virgin. I don't know if the bathroom thing or the size thing bothered me more.

It's funny, in retrospect, that her sex with all three guys was unpleasant. Hmm...I can't give her any credit for deceit, though, because she's just too dumb for that. I remember that she kept calling me for some time after we broke up, attempting to have sex with me..even though she was with another guy.

3) When I was 19 (yes, it's been 5 years since I last had sex), I did a naughty thing...I had sex with a "friend's" girlfriend while he and she were going through some trouble. I should have known that they weren't really going to stay apart..they had been together for years. She started calling me up and asking how I was doing..it caught me off guard somewhat. She's Asian and had only been with Asian guys...and sex with her was horrible. She didn't like deep penetration and had no rhythm whatsoever. I could tell that my "friend" was much smaller than I. I think my index finger would have worked better for her than my dick. She never commented on my size, but I could tell that she didn't know what to do with it and was kind of scared of it. And she was totally quiet during sex, as if I was molesting her or something. baaaah

So, my answer to the poll is ? How big was that guy in the bathroom? He's the stuff of legends..13+ inches, I'm sure :rolleyes: "Wayne," who are you and where are you at?

[evildead]

christof, about the guy you are pissed off about:

You said she was a virgin at the time, therefore this was the first time a dick had penetrated her: its bound to feel big. As for it being uncomfortable: she was in a club, and the sex was probably very rushed with little foreplay. Add this to a virgin pussy, and you have the perfect recipie for a memory of a 'massive dick that made me bleed'.

The combination of many factors has created this illusion for her.

[Gandolf]

Originally posted by evildead
christof, about the guy you are pissed off about:

You said she was a virgin at the time, therefore this was the first time a dick had penetrated her: its bound to feel big. As for it being uncomfortable: she was in a club, and the sex was probably very rushed with little foreplay. Add this to a virgin pussy, and you have the perfect recipie for a memory of a 'massive dick that made me bleed'.

The combination of many factors has created this illusion for her. Yeah, most girls go through pain when they lose their virginity even to an average sized guy, and never take ANYTHING girls say about dick size at face value.

[SirJelqAlot]

its interesting that this almost seems to follow a normal distribution (a bell shaped curve), any statistitions care to offer suggestions about what this might mean? i think that it shows on average people here have worked hard enough to get to that size that makes them the biggest for their girlfriend, or perhaps to become the average, biggest a girl ever has (if that makes sense), and then has stopped working so hard. just some thoughts.

SJA

[pisspipe]

Not to sound condescending, but this is usually a question that a young guy asks (I know, I asked when I was young). In fact, I was 21 when I met my future wife....so, OF COURSE, I asked...duh (at the time I was about 6.5 x 5.2), she said her one serious boyfriend was "about an inch longer", but thinner. She told me I was bigger than the other 2 guys - and fatter than all 3 of them.
Now, at 7.2 x 6.14, I have to be the "biggest" (in terms of volume), if not yet the longest. But this isn't a subject I've broached with her in many years.
But finding NPE was a godsend, especially since my erect length has reduced to about 6.12 when I started, last year.
But it's all about what we're happy with. I say, get in shape, lose the belly, pump up the arms & keep doing PE until you are where YOU want to be. Then, it doesn't matter what sizes your gal had before she met you.
Best wishes.

[Gandolf]

So (according to this poll) OVER two thirds of the members here are as large or larger than the biggest cock their girlfriends have ever had while almost 11% are 4 inches bigger than the biggest.

(Gandolf Sighs)

If this isn't proof that females lie to us about dick size to protect our ego, I don't know what is. And I honestly can't say that I blame them.

[doublelongdaddy]

Originally posted by Gandolf
If this isn't proof that females lie to us about dick size to protect our ego, I don't know what is. And I honestly can't say that I blame them.

This may be a blessing in disguise. Thinking you may be the biggest produces a much friendlier relationship than the cold, hard truth. Maybe for women it's damage control. I think most men think that our lovers may be lieing about size, I think this may be a driving force in our PE endevors. I think these feelings start to fade when we reach the above average size. Once most men realize this PE shit works the anxiety of our lovers past lovers becomes more of a challenge because we realize we can actually do something about it. In my mind it was like, "Well fuck it, if she is lieing I know I can eventually be the biggest"

[RB]

My wife was a virgin before we met/married. I was her smallest at 5x4. I am also her largest at 8.5x5.5... :)

[doublelongdaddy]

Originally posted by RB
My wife was a virgin before we met/married. I was her smallest at 5x4. I am also her largest at 8.5x5.5... :)

So she has had a cock in every size in between:D This could be a world record for a virgin, "I have only slept with one man, but he had hundreds of different penis's"

[regularwhiteguy]

Originally posted by RB
My wife was a virgin before we met/married. I was her smallest at 5x4. I am also her largest at 8.5x5.5... :)

I just loved that one RB... The comments I've got have ranged from nothing to OMG's... Pre PE of 8"NBP x roughly 6.5 girth...

I know my wife had approx 30 other guys prior to me and said I was the second biggest... What makes me wonder about that was she first said the guy was black then changed her story to say he was her first boyfriend, an American Indian... Very possible that both of these guys were bigger then me and I was third on the list, hell I could be way down on it lol...

I tend to agree with evildead that the 1st experience carries the most impact... A woman who is sort of scared and not really ready will clinch up and feel much tighter then one who is ready for action... I also tend to agree with Gandolf that this topic is more than likely better left in the dark... I know I felt exactly as Christof did when I heard about the Indian / Black guy lol, even though I really didn't have anything to bitch about...

[esac]

How many of us are doing PE because we were told we are the smallest that they have had, or at least not the biggest ?

About 1-1 1/2 years ago I was just getting out of a marriage and I started PE because I was getting back into the random sex scene, and figured it couldn't hurt to help get you laid more often :) (as well as hitting the gym more) I quit after about a month of sporadic attempts, figuring I was still getting laid and no lady had a problem with my size.

But just recently with my new girlfriend I found out that the 4 guys she has slept with in her life have all been bigger than me. Statistically I am sure that I just got screwed on this whole deal, but now I am pursuing PE with a passion. My goal is for her to one day look down and say OMG how'd you get bigger than everybody i've been with!