Why do YOU want a bigger penis anyway??

[Stillwantmore22]

I mean we all know size does not matter, it's all in the "motion of the ocean", guys with nice personalities are better, big penis=no brains, guys with big penises dont care about satisfying their partners, guys who want bigger penises are self centered, selfish asses, etc, etc, et-fuckin-cetera. So, with all the femi-nazi influence, why on earth should we want a bigger penis? LOL. I personally want it to satisfy an inner desire to have a bigger penis. Why do I feel I need a bigger penis though? Not to compete with all other men...nope. I want a bigger penis because I feel like I will be more satisfied with my body's overall appearance. Not to satisfy someone else's perception of me. Plus, I KNOW I can still go bigger, so why not?

[twatteaser]

I agree Still. I liken it to knowing that you could make yourself smarter through nootropics. I also think it is like being rich. I mean who would turn down an extra 10 million dollars? No one. I would love to get in shape myself, not for some retarded girl who works at Hooters, but just to be more satisfied with myself when I get up. Self-improvemnt is very important in today's world. If your not moving forward in some way your really pulling yourself down.

[luvdadus]

I was just looking to restore youthful vigorous and lasting erections. didn't think enlargement worked. After I convinced myself that it did, my motivation became mixed:
-erectile health
-Curing my own sexual insecurity issues
-maximizing pleasure for wifey
After I got to a point that I had to take a break to let the wife acclimate to the length, I realize that I am now doing it for my own ego (braggin rights) since I don't think that more size will improve wifey's experience (maybe just a bit more girth...).

[Stillwantmore22]

HEY!@ Retarded girls do NOT work at Hooters! Slightly 'ditzee' ones do but, not retarded ones!

[soyelmocano]

Because of insecurities about oneself; about if you were actually big enough to completely satisfy your partner; if it would really matter to you or to her if it was bigger. I still don't know

[surfnforlife]

All of us are here because at some point we were insecure about our penis's, probably moreso than your average man, because we actually sought out information on the net that finally brought us here. In my mind self improvement brings you to the next level of happiness and wellbeing- being able to not think about something negative, makes our minds thing of more productive things (at least it should). Some people choose not to self improve and dwell in bitter feelings forever, and it effects everthing in their lives.. but thats life, everyone lives it differently, not everyone has a truly self satisfying life.. Say for example you have this really large nose that you obsess about alot. It effects how you act in social settings, you hate having pictures taken, being on camera, ect... this insecurity breeds a low self worth. Unless you can miraculously forget about it, or learn not to think about it, your only option of self improvement is a nose job... now not alot of people would take this route, but if they did they could be on that next plataue of happiness- mabey they would enjoy getting their picture taken, have more self esteem, land a better job. PE is the same thing, its taking an insecurity and destroying it, bringing more confidence, a sence of greater self worth, and brining more happiness into your life.. its a shame that some people dont take action to destroy things that bring them down, they would enjoy life so much more..

[Big Al]

I disagree. The desire for self-improvement doesn't necessarily stem from insecurity.

[Stillwantmore22]

True words from BA. I didnt begin PE out of an insecurity. I'd never had a complaint sexually speaking from any woman I'd been with before I began PE. I started at or slightly above "average" at 6x5 bp. I just got curious one day and, begin digging around online...stumbled onto some paysites...eventually this place...and, then curiosity got the best of me when I'd read several posts here from guys making gains. I thought it would be cool if I could make my dick bigger too. I still-want-more-size too.

[surfnforlife]

Oh comon!!! I guarantee you 80% of the guys in here PE because they are insecure about their penis.. Who on earth would bother investing all this time on this site or even giving all this time to PE for kicks?????? A penis is something you either feel is adequate, small, or large. An adequate penis you can do just fine with, so long as you are not MADE insecure by somehow thinking you are inedequate, (mabey your girlfriend made a comment about a larger sized man she was with, mabey you check out penis's in the locker room, and you dont feel up to size). Now, living with a small penis is grounds for always feeling inadequate, because you know your girlfriend can find a bigger penis- and it hurts like hell to know that, ( we all know this). Living with a big penis is great, you never lack confidence about your unit, because you KNOW its big. Its the thought that there are penis's out there bigger than ours that bring us here, and that is an insecurity.. I know there are a few people here that do this purley becuase they want to please their wives more.. fine.... but the majority are here because they feel inadequate and are single and want a man unit..... i believe i speak for the majority here...

surf

[Gandolf]

Well, 4 years ago (at the age of 15) I stumbled across one of the first paysites. I was probly about 6.5 inches bone pressed but only like 4.5 in girth and I didn't realize that that was a normal size, I thought I was in like the bottom one percentile or s***thing. I gave it a shot but always gave up after a few days, or a week tops. Wasn't that big of an issue, no one else had ever seen my dick except every year at my sports physical. It wasn't until last summer, I have only had one serious gf in my life and she broke my heart in the spring of 2002 and dumped me in the worst possible way. She told me we could still be friends, but of course what she really meant was let's not be friends and she took every chance she could find to take away my dignity after dumping me. In August of 2002 we were having an argument completely instigated by her and she told me she was very disappointed upon first seeing my penis size, that she thought I would have been longer and thicker, but still assured me that I was still the best she ever had in bed(BTW, I was about 7-7.25 bone pressed length, 5.0 midshaft girth, 5.5 base girth while dating her).

Those words still haunt me every day of my life and motivate every PE session I have. There will be a part of me that will never rest until I bulk up my unit even more and find some way of letting her know how big it has gotton. It might take me a year, it might take me 10 years, but by God, my day will come.

[kodil]

Simple, It feels good. Why? who cares? If your not doing it for yourself your not doing it.

I started PE about 2 and half years ago. It works and I don't have to prove it, I get compliments and a little admiration from the odd woman, they do notice, my woman likes it, I would like it even if she did not.

PE makes me think about my diet, my health and how to maintain a vigourous and healthy sexuality. PE sessions are fun and I enjoy the sexual stimulation. I can only see that PE is good for guys.

I do not see the need to engage in a useless debate about the virtues of WHY because its your private life and what you do there is your business. If your going around the image/esteem tree then your problem is that your mind is not focused and you will limit your optimum gains.

Finally as to women or their spokesperson, well, guys I dont care what they think, I'm the one who has the dick. Finally, as there are more of them than us, who needs who?

[surfnforlife]

just as gandolf says, there are plenty of men out there that are insecure or were made insecure by a silly haunting comment. The pleasure of achieving a larger penis due to an insecurity is much greater than achieving a healthier unit out of using PE as a way to maintain a healthy lifestyle... the debate isnt out to prove anything.. its just to state that alot of men are insecure about their units, and that we are here to change that insecurity to make men around the globe happier and more secure with themselves.

[stocktrader8]

I want to get rid of the notion of the Asian curse; with my goal of 7 x 6 I will be one hell of an Asian stud.

[Priapos]

I want to be able to use it as a sledgehammer when I am out on the field.

Priapos

[Spektrum]

My main motiviation is insecurity. Knowing that I'm not quite up to snuff on my girth(4.5 and HATING it). I want to crush that little voice in the back of my mind that says 'you dont measure up'.

Before I started P.E. I had a very thin penis, measuring 6x4 bp. I lost my virginity to a girl I cared a lot about. After we had been together a while, I had haunting comments said to me. One time she said "you are fine lengthwise, but you need another inch of girth". I will NEVER forget that and I had a hard time having sex for a while because of the anxiety I had about my size. The same girlfriend also had to tell me about how big her other partners were. All of these things were crushing and very hard to get over. I know I was born with a slightly small penis and I have been doing things to change it(I'm now 6.5x4.5). It helps that I am a small person(5'8" 120 pounds) because it doesnt look small on me at all, but if there is something I can do to improve my penis, then dammit, i'm going to do it!

[surfnforlife]

Amen brotha, those comments can haunt you forever, and are as clear as the day they were said. Those are enough motivation to get you on your way to a killer slab o' man meat. Think of those comments every time you do it, and when youve reached your goal, they will never haunt you again.

surf

[Wt282]

For better erections and no matter how big I am or ever get- it will always be too small for me. Just watch- I finally meet a girl after 21 years of nothing and I'll be too big for her because I am paranoid and insecure about my penis size. hahaha oh well I'm PEing for me and me only.

[mirlin1960]

There seems to be a split on the "insecurity" VS. "self improvement" here. Me, I started above average and I had always had comments that I was big or nice and others like that, I only had one partner (out of many) that was to wide for me but I bottomed out on her. I started because I was having some Ed and also at 40 I figgered "why not" and go for it :) I am at 8.75 X 6.15 now and I want to get to 9.5 before I stop. I will stop at my current girth if I can help it. I was not/am not insecure about size looks etc. and it's not 'cause I am the greatest looking or the biggest, just comfortable in my own skin and learned a long time ago that you are mostly born a certain way and you can accept it or be miserable about it. With PE there is a chance to gain inches just like with breat implants, there's a chance for self improvement. It's almost always self serving and whatever your reasons, GO FOR IT!
Luv has the best motivations 'cause he takes into consideration what makes his wife feel good as well, he's got the best of both worlds :)

[J Meister]

Priapos,
Check your Private Messages.


I'm intrigued by the concept of being able to change a body part that I have never been fully satisfied with.

[doublelongdaddy]

As long as I have been doing PE I have made many goals but I still have not gotten to my final goal. It is not so much a measurment as it is a vison I have always had in my mind as to what a perfect penis is for me. I can see it and I am not there yet.

[crazyJLK]

Originally posted by doublelongdaddy
As long as I have been doing PE I have made many goals but I still have not gotten to my final goal. It is not so much a measurment as it is a vison I have always had in my mind as to what a perfect penis is for me. I can see it and I am not there yet.

DLD, are you grazing a field or galloping around a race track when you see yourself in this vision?

[doublelongdaddy]

Originally posted by crazyJLK


DLD, are you grazing a field or galloping around a race track when you see yourself in this vision?

I know my goals seem rediculous but non-the-less there is a vision of what I want that has been stuck in my head since I realized PE works. I want to reach this point so bad. I realize it is going to take quite a bit more time but I love this game and I ain't planning on my retirement and time soon.