Need help, sex problem

[PEpower]

This is kind of related to PE, probably more for the pills section. I need some quick helpful advice. I have the standard "I can't last long enough during sex" problem.

I've recently been dating a new girl, and she's on birth control which means I don't have to use condoms. I was thrilled, well not anymore. Every girl I've previously been with hasn't been on birth control. I was always able to last and have great sex sessions with condoms. However, I'm finding this new adventure to be extremely frustrating, annoying, and now I'm starting to get anxious about it. I can't last more than 2 minutes without using condoms, and the stop and start method isn't working to help me last either. Actually, I'd say the first 2 times we had sex I did fine. Maybe a little short of what I wanted but lately it's been very frustrating. I want to be able to have 2 hour porn star sex like I used to with condoms : (. Something that's not a solution here is to use a condom. I've got some questions that can maybe get answered here...

- Has anyone else here had the same problem that I'm having? How did you overcome it if you did? What would you sest?

- Pill for sex stamina? What are some of the best supplements to help out my problem? I can get and maintain an erection fine, most of the time I can't last without a condom.

- How can PE help my stamina here? The ONLY excercises I'll do are manual stretches, and squeezes. I got into PE a few years ago and found out that these work best for my body. Jelqing or hanging is not for me.

- I have some cream that I'm going to try out next time. It's called "Maintain" by Durex. The active ingredient is "Benzocaine" - 7.5% in a washable base. Also contains Carbomer and Polyethylene Glycol. Are there any other desensitizing products that I can use? This is more of a short term solution that may or may not work and I am against this solution. But, it may help and I'm willing to do anything at this point.

Thanks for the help in advance, hopefully I can overcome this problem that plagues some of us.

[Big Al]

"I've recently been dating a new girl, and she's on birth control which means I don't have to use condoms."

Not very wise if you don't know her sexual history. Even if she can't get pregnant, you can still catch (or give) something.

How long have you been doing the <A HREF=http://www.forsize.com/members/htm/p8.htm>"Stop and Start"</A>? Have you given other methods a try such as ejaculating before intercourse so that you last longer? Going from "condoms" to "no condoms" will take some getting used to- you'll have to be patient. On another note- sometimes the anxiety alone will lead you to premature ejaculation.

My advice- learn to relax, get more into the Stop and Starts (they're foolproof when you've got them down pat), and try either ejaculating before intercourse or even waiting until round 2 before trying to go for longer intercourse.

[PEpower]

I hope you don't take this personally Big Al, but I'm not going to pay $35 just to figure out if I think what stop and start is is accurate.

I think I've been using stop and start all along. Is it when you bring yourself right up to the point of no return, pull out and squeeze your penis muscle (bone, tissue, whatever) really hard so as not to cum? This does work sometimes for me, however with this situation that hasn't been completely successful and there's a risk of actually cumming which would seriously suck...

What has been sort of working for me though (only once so far), is just masturbating every day (sometimes twice), with warming lube, to hardcore porn, and trying to a) not make myself climax so fast while masturbating b) work on stamina c) test out the stop and start method...

Another thing that helped last time I had sex was to think of something completely non sex related. I'd get much closer to cumming if I focused on her breathing and orgasming. If I kind of zone out and think about something ridiculous like playing an instrument or a video game it helps give me stamina, but then I'm not focused on the sex and enjoying it as much.

Also, I'm starting to do squeeze routines every day again. I hope this helps with this problem. I think it'll help me regain stronger erections during sex since I'm masturbating every day to help combat the PE.

Another thing I did was order pills... 6 things total, which are
- some stamina blend with yohimbe and other products
- Yohimbe Bark
- Arginine/Ornithine/Lysine
- Horny Goat Weed
- Ginko Biloba
- Panax Ginseng

What else can I be doing to turn myself into a beast that can last 2 hours on demand?

[Big Al]

I hope you don't take this personally Big Al, but I'm not going to pay $35 just to figure out if I think what stop and start is is accurate.

I think I've been using stop and start all along. Is it when you bring yourself right up to the point of no return, pull out and squeeze your penis muscle (bone, tissue, whatever) really hard so as not to cum? This does work sometimes for me, however with this situation that hasn't been completely successful and there's a risk of actually cumming which would seriously suck...

Sort of, except that you try to hold back 3 or more times so that you develop endurance. Make sure to time yourself on this exercise so that you ensure that you're making progress. Try not to vary your grip from session to session either.

What has been sort of working for me though (only once so far), is just masturbating every day (sometimes twice), with warming lube, to hardcore porn, and trying to a) not make myself climax so fast while masturbating b) work on stamina c) test out the stop and start method...

Another thing that helped last time I had sex was to think of something completely non sex related. I'd get much closer to cumming if I focused on her breathing and orgasming. If I kind of zone out and think about something ridiculous like playing an instrument or a video game it helps give me stamina, but then I'm not focused on the sex and enjoying it as much.

Also, I'm starting to do squeeze routines every day again. I hope this helps with this problem. I think it'll help me regain stronger erections during sex since I'm masturbating every day to help combat the PE.

Another thing I did was order pills... 6 things total, which are
- some stamina blend with yohimbe and other products
- Yohimbe Bark
- Arginine/Ornithine/Lysine
- Horny Goat Weed
- Ginko Biloba
- Panax Ginseng

What else can I be doing to turn myself into a beast that can last 2 hours on demand?

What about thick condoms. They'll reduce your sensitivity (in addition to birth control and providing protection against STDs).

[PEpower]

I'll try out the stop and start doing that three times. However, I feel that when I'm trying it, sometimes it takes only once and I really have to work hard to get to a climax. Also, condoms are already a solution to my problem. I can do fine with them, however I'm trying to fully overcome this without them. I think with all the helpful things I'm trying I might be able to get over this.

[Big Al]

Another tip- try ejaculating beforehand. It'll take you longer to reach climax if you're recently ejaculated.