Answer me this

Alright I know my following question and situation doesn't really have anything to do with PE, but i didn't know where else to turn. Here goes in a short form

I went on a date with a girl i really like and after the movies, we went and found a place to park my car so we could "talk" or whatever would happen! :) Then after i had done my part ( fingered her ) she thought it would be nice to return the favor. After she proceeded to pull my unit out of my pants, she tried to give me a hand job, but my unit remained flacid. Even after 5 minutes if was still not hard. Now my question is, do i have some sort of disfunction and is there a way to fix this. Please get back to me as it is a touchy subject and i m REALLY worried about it.

[dino775]

Fllex 0069

Can you get a hard on when you jerk off, if so maybe you just weren't turned on my this chick? was there something you found repulsive about her, I met this girl once thought she was so hot than when we got into better light I saw she had a few hairs on her chin, it freaked me out I couldn't fuch her and she was ready to go. Since your on a pe site maybe you might also be nervous about the size of you dick and that was keeping you soft.

Dino

[P9]

Flex-- Has it happened before ??

If it's "one off", it's just one of those things that happen every now and then-- maybe you were pre-occupied about some other aspect of your life.

But if not , -- if it's happening too often-- and presuming that you get erect at any -- or most other times that you want to--- and sometimes when you don't want to--- you maybe need to be honest with yourself about what kinds of people REALLY turn you on ---in your head and heart--- and dick department, and go for them instead.

I wouldn't trip. if she gives you head, and you're still flaccid, then that's another subject..........

Hey Flex.

I have a similar problem to yours. I have never had a full erection from a girl. When I masturbate, though, It takes forever and I don't ever get fully hard, but at least it worked. I chalked it all up to being nervous (which it could be for you) but it was really tearing me up inside (talk about insecurities!!) and after several months of this, I finally saw a doctor. He did a a few blood tests and it turns out that I have about 1/5 the level of testosterone in my blood that I should have. Being that testosterone is the primary hormone responsible for erectile function, this all started to make sense. As of now, the docs are baffled as to why I am suffering from this so I await treatment.

My advice to you is to do a little research on testosterone defficiency (specifically in the areas if the pituitary gland and the testicles) and see if you think any of it applies to you. If so, you might want to see a doctor. Otherwise, just try and relax, throw your balls around a little and it might all work out

Kaplunk