Jelqing question.

[Coolzie]

Just did my first session yesterday. Seemed to be a little on the soft side when jelqing and throughout most of the workout. I know ur supposed to be semi-erect when jelqing but was wondering if it is better to be too soft or too hard or if there's no difference. Also if my dick is not feeling really sore does that mean I did not work hard enough. Sry if questions have already been answered.

[Big Al]

It's better to be too soft since it's safer than jelqing erect. Soreness shouldn't be the goal- the goal should be size increases. Keep track of your wrokouts and measurements. If the workout is effective, you'll note gains.